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Tuesday 8 April 2014

Besties vs Brother



                                                          
Hey people guess what? 

I had a fun blasting weekend……i partied like no man's business owambe repete.

In actual fact have really wanted to put this up for a while now but orisirisi has being hapening any way here it is finally.

Am i the only one in this or have you ever wondered how cool and fun it would be to share the same surname with your best friend?.....*whoops* not a bad idea I suppose.
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But frankly it takes a great level of trust and strong foundational friendship to willingly give your brother to your bestie.

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Come to think of it, i personally don’t have a problem with whoever my brother is seeing in fact I like the thought of it but always settling with it seems like a big deal considering the fact that during the normal girlfriend bonding am not sure i will want to hear about my brother's sex life, Seriously that would be yucky.

Also when it comes to awuff *yepa* shey I go chop my brother money ni?
Abi when they have 'issues' will I be able to give advice and she wont feel am on my brother's side?

Abi she no go fear to gimme gist on who's 'on her matter' chei!!!
What if it goes wrong nko? wont I lose my girlfriend? wont my brother think we are birds of the same feathers? and all sort used to be my concern and constant thought but am liking and feeling that relationship called bestie  and brother now.

The few of my friends have seen get married to their besties brother makes me open mouth in agape and dart my eyes that’s it’s a cool thing,it going to rock the friendship more and give it's a double crown*giggles*

What better way to tease your girlfriend as iya oko mi (mother in-law/sister in-law in this case) and receive the iyawo (wife) reply its still more cool that your 'iya oko' is someone you have always had a bond with not the necessary I must padi my husband/fiancé/boyfriends sister *eyes rolling* its soooh cool being related to your bestfriend.

At this declaration eehn, my single amiable girlfriends are on a list down for my brother ……*yippee* hope he finds his choice in them *laughing*……..

Tell me what you think about the bestfriend and brother thing.

Till next time people*Blows kiss*

4 comments:

  1. Hehehe. Honestly, i'd rather they decided on their own without any input from me simply because, if it goes wrong, it won't be pretty and i don't want to be caught between a rock and a hard place. Outside of that, it'd be so cool to have my bestie marry my brother o. It'd be amazing!

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  2. @toin.....asin its really going to be cool oo,that bond of friendship cant be bought for any price you know....

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  3. Blessings.....
    what is to be will be, just remember to maintain boundaries on both sides.

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  4. Read all posts! Totally awesome... keep the blogging ministry moving.. Cheers!

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